insecurity

INSECURITY

Quite a good number of us have a sense of inadequacy – that feeling that we are “not good enough”. This sense of inadequacy has been the bane of many personal and business relationships. Many promising relationships are ruined because of one’s insecurity. If you have ended relationships for fear that the other party is […]

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advice

ADVICE PAPA GAVE ME – Where do I want to go?

My beloved daughter, “Where do I want to go?” This is a very important question to ask yourself from time to time as you journey through life. Remember, the question is “Where do I want to go?” not “Where do people want me to go?”. Asking yourself this question helps you to sincerely evaluate what […]

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Nooo! I DON’T WANT TO BE MARRIED!

When I read the article on Pride Nigeria Online, “Say it Loud, I Want A Loving Husband,” I was not upset but concerned that the article seemed to have an implicit assumption that all women want to be married. Is this the true picture? I say it is not. I write a reply to give […]

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Walk By Faith, Not By Sight (Part 1)

In this four-part series, Charles Anyiam-Osigwe examines what it means to walk by faith, and not by sight. Life’s journey for everyone (without exception) is a challenging one. No matter our race, gender, creed, or financial status, we will all face adversity as we traverse this earthly plane. The adversity could come in one form […]

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Relationship

Relationship Trust Quiz

Is your relationship defined by honesty and dependability—or suspicion and betrayal? Research suggests that trust is an essential ingredient to a healthy relationship, but we all know how hard it can be to sustain. The quiz below measures how trusting you are. It is based on a “trust scale” developed by psychologists at the University […]

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say it loud

Say It Loud! I want A Loving Husband

I read somewhere that “Single women seem determined to love their single status, so determined that they often undermine their chances of getting married even though, secretly, that is what they want.” It only stands to reason: If you tell everyone you’re happily single, insist you don’t want a man, and tell everyone who will […]

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advice

ADVICE PAPA GAVE ME: MARRIAGE IS A CONTRACT, READ THE FINE PRINT

My dear daughter, I have watched you grow up over the years, and I must confess that you have given me much joy. Now in your twenties, I am sure your thoughts sometimes turn to the subject of marriage. With this in mind, I want to share some of my thoughts on the subject. My […]

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JESUS WILL RESTORE YOU TO WHOLENESS OF BODY AND SPIRIT

Let us approach God’s throne of grace with an attitude of expectation of blessings. Sometimes we are really tired, indeed worn out and weary because over the past years, we may have experienced many challenges to our faith in the form of loss, pain, unfulfilled expectations, rejection and other failings. This feeling of weariness may […]

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SHADES OF LOVE

I went to a photo studio to have some passport photographs taken. As I stood outside the cashiers boot to pay for the pictures, I could not help noticing a poster on one of the walls of her booth. It read: BE CAREFUL         DON’T EVER GIVE ANY MAN THE OPPORTUNITY TO BREAK YOUR HEART […]

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